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Profit's avatar

Good article. Very relatable. I felt like I could have written this about myself.

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Louis A Rivera's avatar

Great advice! The danger of a sharp tongue and a rapier wit is that the blade can have unintended victims—sometimes it can unintentionally sever an important relationship. Using it sparingly and wisely has been a lesson I wish I had learned earlier.

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Maryan Pelland's avatar

Amen, brother!

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Mike Searles's avatar

... and I love your choice of images for your posts!

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Maryan Pelland's avatar

Ah thanks, Mike--I like choosing the images so they make me feel a response, and they avoid being a picture of a pen with a laptop from Unsplash!!

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Elizabeth H. Cottrell's avatar

Wowzer, you just gave a graduate-level course on conflict resolution…without any fluff and your signature dose of common sense. Excellent. And you’re so right about the ways these skills can be put to good use in a writing career. Many would not call it a high-conflict career, but any time you’re dealing with other people, the potential is there.

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Maryan Pelland's avatar

How very generous of you to say all that! I appreciate it. Conflict resolution has been one of the toughest things I have had to learn and face in my life. I work at it daily and still lose my cool.

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Kris Downey's avatar

Great info. Thank you.

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